Needing To Feel Better

When she first found out about the affair, and that a lot of the messages that she saw were of them making fun of her body and weight, she knew she had to help herself, aside from working on her self-esteem. She explained, “I was just desperate to feel better. My intention in the beginning was not to lose weight. I just needed some better nutrition.”

Taking Control Of Her Life

Betsy knew then that she could either do one of two things. Sit back and cry over what had happened, or take charge of her life. So that’s exactly what she did. Rather than remain overweight, Ayala made the wise decision to take control of her health and to start getting healthy. Not just for herself, but more so for her young daughter, Isabella. And of course, it was an added plus to be able to show her cheating ex-husband that he made one of the worst mistakes of his life by being unfaithful to her, then making fun of her behind her back.